Most people like to wear the title of antiracist without living the lifestyle!  Many people believe their work to undo racism is to help somebody else less fortunate. You may have heard someone (or maybe you have) refer to themselves as an ally.  There's no such thing when it comes to racism.  Racism has impacted and dehumanized us all-red, yellow, black and white!  (Brown was added later to the race construct.)  You can't do something for someone else that you are not doing, have done, or are willing to do for yourself...not without causing further harm.  

Neely Fuller said, "If you don't understand white supremacy/racism, everything that you do understand will only confuse you.”

 As much as I want my nieces and nephews to never experience what I have and to create a legacy for my children's children, to work on their behalf without working for my own liberation is self-deprecating.  Even the Bible says love your neighbor AS you love yourself.  I must love on me to better love on yo...